1-7被动去爱，莫如主动去踹

The passage discusses the theme of women"s passive approach to love and the importance of taking initiative in relationships. It emphasizes that being矜持 is fine but not to the point of sacrificing one"s happiness， suggesting that women should be proactive in choosing partners and not settle for bad ones. The main character，丽伊， learns to assert herself and let go of unsatisfactory relationships.